Hello again, It's been awhile since I posted anything. Today's topic that I will be talking about is letting go.
Letting Go can be describe by types of letting go,but what i'm more keen and interested to talk about is accepting rejection/letting go from someone you like who doesn't have the same feelings for you and how to let go someone you like.
I'll first talk about "How to let go of people who you're not interested in." If you wanna let go of someone or in other words reject them,please be in mind not to hurt them too badly,I know it will hurt but is best to not let the opposite faction hurt so bad. Tell him/her that you're not interested,tell him/her that their not your type,but always try to keep in contact as in talk a little after the "letting go" part so the opposite faction will feel comfort.(Be in mind that if you comfort them please keep you distance and choose the appropriate words to comfort them or else they will fall for you again and get hurt badly again)
Now moving on to the accepting rejection part. To all the guys out there,if you have felt regrettable pain I know how you feel. To the girls out there also, i feel ya...
But to accept rejection takes a lot of guts. Don't think of it as a rejection,think of it as a chance for you to find someone better and learn from your mistakes.
P.S- I kinda wrote this quite short. sorry, cuz i weren't in the mood.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Handling break ups
Hello again everyone that is viewing my blog,I'm here again after a year of not writing anything,I finally return to share some new great stuff to help make your life much easier.
Today's topic,we will be discussing about breakups
one thing is that breakups could be hard to handle for some people,even i sometimes have a hard time too.First things first,we are going to talk about is how to handle a break up.To handle a break up,try to control yourself.Some people can't control their emotions and start to lose their mind.Just try to control.Second is that when a guy/ girl is trying to break up with you,try to reason out with him/her,ask him/her why are you doing this?,why are you breaking up with me?,something like that.Its ok if you don't want to reason with him/her...it's entirely up to you.
Another thing about breakup is how are you going to handle the aftermath.Handling isn't easy because no one is invulnerable to pain and I also don't recommend you to master break up afthermaths because if you do master breakup aftermaths you will we a painless guy/girl who will have no heart at all.OK..back to the topic.To handle break up aftermath,you will sure be very sad,feeling like wanna kill yourself,feeling angry when you see that person.Just remember to be calm...but if he/she breaks up with you for a stupid reason like if he/she breaks up with you for a guy/girl then that means he/she is stupid.After a break up and you are sad,do stuff that makes you happy,cheer yourself up.it maybe hard at first but you will be able to do it sooner or later.After I was dumped I could tell you that I was really really sad,it was hard for me to cheer up,my face was always frowning,but when you start to do something you like you will be happy I guarantee it.Another thing that can help cheer you up is your family and friends.My friends help cheered me up and my family also,you would be amazed what they could do!!!Always remember,if you have fun it will sure cheer you up because after a break up,you will be sad because you will think of that guy/girl,so by having fun you are constantly focused on one thing and you will forget about him.So after a break up,go do stuff that makes you happy or else it will take you a long time to recover from the break up.Sometimes it will even take you 5 months to forget about someone you loved before.
Remember...It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
If you need anymore help,those who know me have my number and you can always call me or SMS....
Cheers!!!
Today's topic,we will be discussing about breakups
one thing is that breakups could be hard to handle for some people,even i sometimes have a hard time too.First things first,we are going to talk about is how to handle a break up.To handle a break up,try to control yourself.Some people can't control their emotions and start to lose their mind.Just try to control.Second is that when a guy/ girl is trying to break up with you,try to reason out with him/her,ask him/her why are you doing this?,why are you breaking up with me?,something like that.Its ok if you don't want to reason with him/her...it's entirely up to you.
Another thing about breakup is how are you going to handle the aftermath.Handling isn't easy because no one is invulnerable to pain and I also don't recommend you to master break up afthermaths because if you do master breakup aftermaths you will we a painless guy/girl who will have no heart at all.OK..back to the topic.To handle break up aftermath,you will sure be very sad,feeling like wanna kill yourself,feeling angry when you see that person.Just remember to be calm...but if he/she breaks up with you for a stupid reason like if he/she breaks up with you for a guy/girl then that means he/she is stupid.After a break up and you are sad,do stuff that makes you happy,cheer yourself up.it maybe hard at first but you will be able to do it sooner or later.After I was dumped I could tell you that I was really really sad,it was hard for me to cheer up,my face was always frowning,but when you start to do something you like you will be happy I guarantee it.Another thing that can help cheer you up is your family and friends.My friends help cheered me up and my family also,you would be amazed what they could do!!!Always remember,if you have fun it will sure cheer you up because after a break up,you will be sad because you will think of that guy/girl,so by having fun you are constantly focused on one thing and you will forget about him.So after a break up,go do stuff that makes you happy or else it will take you a long time to recover from the break up.Sometimes it will even take you 5 months to forget about someone you loved before.
Remember...It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
If you need anymore help,those who know me have my number and you can always call me or SMS....
Cheers!!!
Monday, August 16, 2010
Partially great facts.....
These are some quite good facts and stuff that i found out.Some by the hard way and others by just simply asking the people(interviewing).
For guys:
Don't go for younger girls like if you are in form 3 then you go for form 1 girls,it will be like you putting your heart on the table and smashing it with a mace....
If your think you can do it then go for it...I don't mind,but to me,in what i have seen and what I experienced,being with a form 1 or liking a form 1 and hoping to have a relationship with a form 1 will literally kill you.First,you will feel very happy,like you took some drugs or something,but in the end no matter how hard you try she still won't like you back.(just like the heart and mace thing again....pump in ecstasy in your heart for you may not feel pain,but the ecstasy isn't strong enough to counter the pain,thus the term "i am heart broken"
Reasons:
Most of the reasons i found out that for the common questions like...."why she don't like me anymore" or "what did i do to make her stop liking me".Actually,is not most of us,guy's fault.....is actually them form 1 girls fault.First of all,their just form 1 only,their mentality isn't fully matured yet.They may tend to assume that we guys are somehow "annoying" when we just simply care for our loved ones.Another thing is that having an immature mentality could lead your "future relationship with that girl" CRASH!!!! This is because that girl's mentality is immature that it will make her don't know what is the real meaning of liking or loving someone.So one day the love spark that you have with that form 1 girl will eventually be extinguished by carbon dioxide...lol.
What to do????:
After your break down with a form 1 girl,don't go killing yourself.It may hurt form the start but in the end it feels like heaven having friends and family to have fun with.Always look at the bright sight even things are down in YOUR dumps!!!!At least you can be free now and do what you always wanted to do as a guy!!!!Do stuff that makes you happy like after my break down with a form 1 unknown girl,i play basketball and dance because these things make me feel happy and relieved.
Note to all,or In conclusion,"don't go for Form 1's" unless you think you can and I ain't judging anyone here.Let a form 1 go for a form 1.....it will be a nice thing to see how 2 person could actually like each other for just 2-3 weeks then thing went like hell.We call this "puppy love" the topic i talked about before at my last post.
So bottom line is,for guys,don't go for girls that are way younger than you..for example: form 1's,if your spark with that girl ends don't be sad forever because there is always someone out there that feels the same way you feel(like me) or worst,if that form 1 girl stop liking you because she wants to be with another form 1 boy then say this to yourself..."Their relationship ended the minute they started it"
They won't be together for long and even they are together for quite a long time they don't really talk to each other.....that means their missing the essence of"relationship"!!!!
For guys:
Don't go for younger girls like if you are in form 3 then you go for form 1 girls,it will be like you putting your heart on the table and smashing it with a mace....
If your think you can do it then go for it...I don't mind,but to me,in what i have seen and what I experienced,being with a form 1 or liking a form 1 and hoping to have a relationship with a form 1 will literally kill you.First,you will feel very happy,like you took some drugs or something,but in the end no matter how hard you try she still won't like you back.(just like the heart and mace thing again....pump in ecstasy in your heart for you may not feel pain,but the ecstasy isn't strong enough to counter the pain,thus the term "i am heart broken"
Reasons:
Most of the reasons i found out that for the common questions like...."why she don't like me anymore" or "what did i do to make her stop liking me".Actually,is not most of us,guy's fault.....is actually them form 1 girls fault.First of all,their just form 1 only,their mentality isn't fully matured yet.They may tend to assume that we guys are somehow "annoying" when we just simply care for our loved ones.Another thing is that having an immature mentality could lead your "future relationship with that girl" CRASH!!!! This is because that girl's mentality is immature that it will make her don't know what is the real meaning of liking or loving someone.So one day the love spark that you have with that form 1 girl will eventually be extinguished by carbon dioxide...lol.
What to do????:
After your break down with a form 1 girl,don't go killing yourself.It may hurt form the start but in the end it feels like heaven having friends and family to have fun with.Always look at the bright sight even things are down in YOUR dumps!!!!At least you can be free now and do what you always wanted to do as a guy!!!!Do stuff that makes you happy like after my break down with a form 1 unknown girl,i play basketball and dance because these things make me feel happy and relieved.
Note to all,or In conclusion,"don't go for Form 1's" unless you think you can and I ain't judging anyone here.Let a form 1 go for a form 1.....it will be a nice thing to see how 2 person could actually like each other for just 2-3 weeks then thing went like hell.We call this "puppy love" the topic i talked about before at my last post.
So bottom line is,for guys,don't go for girls that are way younger than you..for example: form 1's,if your spark with that girl ends don't be sad forever because there is always someone out there that feels the same way you feel(like me) or worst,if that form 1 girl stop liking you because she wants to be with another form 1 boy then say this to yourself..."Their relationship ended the minute they started it"
They won't be together for long and even they are together for quite a long time they don't really talk to each other.....that means their missing the essence of"relationship"!!!!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Public and hidden relationship
ok.....next topic is about relationship being public or not
I've said before....if u want to have a real serious relationship,boyfriends and girlfriends please be ready,stead fast and alert about the good and bad consequences that will come in a real relationship.You see having a relationship,you can either have a high profile wan...or a low profile wan...let me explain it more detail to you viewers.
For low profile relationships,i can say that it is safer lo,if you think your friends might tease you about your relationship then just leave it...is your relationship why care what other people say about your relationship,remember,have a strong and patient heart.If you really can't stand your friends then ask your boyfriend/girlfriend to help you chase them away,and dear friends...if your are reading this...please don't tease or insult your friend's relationship...becuz you will have a relationship someday and what is that day we tease you....you won't like it also right?So don't do it to your friends...If your prefer to keep a low profile then it's your choice.Low profile relationship can also be good becuz maybe you want to avoid his/her parents from knowing your relationship with that girl/boy...so up to you...if you want more info PM me or ask me in school...
OK...next is having a high profile relationship.High profile relationship that mostly means your are ready to risk it all for everyone to know who you truly like.High profile relationship is like a second step,low profile relationship is the frist step....later i will explain about the steps,remember to read it at the bottom of this post.High profile relationship,you will let everyone including your parents,teachers,friends know who you like.If you dare to do romantic stuff in front of everybody including the principle then be my guest...but i recommend that you ask your special someone permission to let everyone know and to let everyone see what you and her/him do together in public.If she/he allows or is ready for the public to know about his/her relationship then do it...but never rush things....or things will get U-G-L-Y!!!!
ok..here are the steps of love
First is (Puppy love)it happens during primary school and secondary school
Second is(low profile relationship)I already explain it above
Third is (high profile relationship)I also explain it above already
Fourth is (serious relationship)This is the real serious relationship where you start to make out and stuff la...but even a very serious relationship could be in-mature...you never know..
After fourth i bet you can guess by yourselves la....
Puppy love never last wan...puppy love are small little crushes,but low profile is something a bit more serious then after low profile is more serious already,when reach fourth is real serious already..ok?
Another thing is that i need to know what viewers want...what tip you people want from me???PM me in facebook or ask me in school...thanks,Don't be afraid to ask..remember it is(free of charge and not personal or private information will be given to other people unless the owner say can).
If you really want to take a good advice from teachers,parent and me...please find a lover when we are much more older...i am not saying you can't have a relationship now,you can but it's up to you..i am not forcing you...it's your choice...up to you
Quote of the day:Love doesn't make the world go round,Love just simply makes the ride worthwhile!!!!
I've said before....if u want to have a real serious relationship,boyfriends and girlfriends please be ready,stead fast and alert about the good and bad consequences that will come in a real relationship.You see having a relationship,you can either have a high profile wan...or a low profile wan...let me explain it more detail to you viewers.
For low profile relationships,i can say that it is safer lo,if you think your friends might tease you about your relationship then just leave it...is your relationship why care what other people say about your relationship,remember,have a strong and patient heart.If you really can't stand your friends then ask your boyfriend/girlfriend to help you chase them away,and dear friends...if your are reading this...please don't tease or insult your friend's relationship...becuz you will have a relationship someday and what is that day we tease you....you won't like it also right?So don't do it to your friends...If your prefer to keep a low profile then it's your choice.Low profile relationship can also be good becuz maybe you want to avoid his/her parents from knowing your relationship with that girl/boy...so up to you...if you want more info PM me or ask me in school...
OK...next is having a high profile relationship.High profile relationship that mostly means your are ready to risk it all for everyone to know who you truly like.High profile relationship is like a second step,low profile relationship is the frist step....later i will explain about the steps,remember to read it at the bottom of this post.High profile relationship,you will let everyone including your parents,teachers,friends know who you like.If you dare to do romantic stuff in front of everybody including the principle then be my guest...but i recommend that you ask your special someone permission to let everyone know and to let everyone see what you and her/him do together in public.If she/he allows or is ready for the public to know about his/her relationship then do it...but never rush things....or things will get U-G-L-Y!!!!
ok..here are the steps of love
First is (Puppy love)it happens during primary school and secondary school
Second is(low profile relationship)I already explain it above
Third is (high profile relationship)I also explain it above already
Fourth is (serious relationship)This is the real serious relationship where you start to make out and stuff la...but even a very serious relationship could be in-mature...you never know..
After fourth i bet you can guess by yourselves la....
Puppy love never last wan...puppy love are small little crushes,but low profile is something a bit more serious then after low profile is more serious already,when reach fourth is real serious already..ok?
Another thing is that i need to know what viewers want...what tip you people want from me???PM me in facebook or ask me in school...thanks,Don't be afraid to ask..remember it is(free of charge and not personal or private information will be given to other people unless the owner say can).
If you really want to take a good advice from teachers,parent and me...please find a lover when we are much more older...i am not saying you can't have a relationship now,you can but it's up to you..i am not forcing you...it's your choice...up to you
Quote of the day:Love doesn't make the world go round,Love just simply makes the ride worthwhile!!!!
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Family
Next.... is a very very very very very very very very very IMPORTANT topic called:
FAMILY!!!!!!!
I know that if your parents don't agree with you that having him/her as your boyfriend/girlfriend is right then you won't like your parents.But as you can see you can't argue with your parents becuz your parents know more than you becuz maybe they think it is better for you or becuz the got more experience than you....they juz wan whats best for you,so don't misjudge them.But if your parents know about your secret relationship with some boy/girl and your parents say that they are going to give u a final warning and if they catch you again they will go to school and scold that boy/girl then i have ways to prevent that.
First,tell this to your boyfriend/girlfriend and ask them for help,and ask your boyfriend or girlfriend not to be angry at your parents and understand them.
All the boyfriends and girlfriends out there....if your special someone have this problems please help them and keep your relationship a low profile.Don't do anything with your special someone that got something to do with his/her parents.Juz keep a low profile and bare it for as long as you can....maybe if she/he reach age 18 or above maybe their parents will understand.
FAMILY!!!!!!!
I know that if your parents don't agree with you that having him/her as your boyfriend/girlfriend is right then you won't like your parents.But as you can see you can't argue with your parents becuz your parents know more than you becuz maybe they think it is better for you or becuz the got more experience than you....they juz wan whats best for you,so don't misjudge them.But if your parents know about your secret relationship with some boy/girl and your parents say that they are going to give u a final warning and if they catch you again they will go to school and scold that boy/girl then i have ways to prevent that.
First,tell this to your boyfriend/girlfriend and ask them for help,and ask your boyfriend or girlfriend not to be angry at your parents and understand them.
All the boyfriends and girlfriends out there....if your special someone have this problems please help them and keep your relationship a low profile.Don't do anything with your special someone that got something to do with his/her parents.Juz keep a low profile and bare it for as long as you can....maybe if she/he reach age 18 or above maybe their parents will understand.
Friends and other stuffzzzz
Another topic:Friends
ok.....Every couple or lovers or likers out there,i need you to read this.
Friends the one thing a human can't live without...if we live without friends we will go crazy....first of all,if u have a boyfriend/girlfreind be sure to manage your time with your special someone and your friends...if not u will be left out onli your friends and not your special someone or vice-versa.(vice-versa means:"also the other way around")at least sacrifice your time for your friends and your special someone.>>>>It is juz like catching a bird...if you caught a bird in your hand you cannot hold it too tightly and not too softly becuz if too tight you will kill it and if too softly you will let it go.<<<<(this metaphor can also be applied for having a special some one)If your friends hate your boyfriend/girlfriend then at least tolerate or tell your friends to at least give him/her a chance.if your boyfriend/girlfriend hates your friends then do the same thing,ask ur boyfriend/girlfriend to give your friends a chance to be friend with him/her...don't juz break up with your friends or your boyfriend/girlfriend.That why....one of my friend named Marry(<<>>>must be ready and alert for anything that comes in your way<<<<(advice for guys and girls)For girls be ready to cry or let out your feeling when you know you are going to have a break up,for guys we will have the biggest responsibility ever,guys be ready to protect,cry,help your girl in a anyway.if you(a guy) had a though break up....don't be shy to cry if u wan la...ok... Published by:Assassin_kw
ok.....Every couple or lovers or likers out there,i need you to read this.
Friends the one thing a human can't live without...if we live without friends we will go crazy....first of all,if u have a boyfriend/girlfreind be sure to manage your time with your special someone and your friends...if not u will be left out onli your friends and not your special someone or vice-versa.(vice-versa means:"also the other way around")at least sacrifice your time for your friends and your special someone.>>>>It is juz like catching a bird...if you caught a bird in your hand you cannot hold it too tightly and not too softly becuz if too tight you will kill it and if too softly you will let it go.<<<<(this metaphor can also be applied for having a special some one)If your friends hate your boyfriend/girlfriend then at least tolerate or tell your friends to at least give him/her a chance.if your boyfriend/girlfriend hates your friends then do the same thing,ask ur boyfriend/girlfriend to give your friends a chance to be friend with him/her...don't juz break up with your friends or your boyfriend/girlfriend.That why....one of my friend named Marry(<<
stuff about "giving up"
ok...finally my new post,which my friends have been dying to see this becuz i always forget to have a new post...anyway
Today's topic:"giving up"
Giving up is the most common feeling in the heart of any couple....boy or girl....still the same.If a boy likes a girl a lot in the end the boy will most probably have the giving up feeling,these things work vice-versa.See...if a boy named vincent really really liks a girl named yuna a lot...vincent will probably have the giving up feeling.If a girl/guy has no more feelings for you and u know it..then u will most probably want to give up.
Ways to prevent the "giving up" feeling to come and ways to "not make a girl stop liking you."
First of all....we should know what does the word"relationship' means....don't just throw that word around and don't know the meaning."Relationship" means having a relation with someone....it is either a friend relationship or a couple relationship.That means if u don't wan a girl/guy to stop liking you then u should connect with her....talk to her/him,have fun with him/her,share stuff with him/her,if not u will end the relationship quickly.Juz go talk to him/her in school...don't care what other people think,becuz my friends always tell me that they are shy and don't dare to talk to him/her,and becuz of this their relationship will end quickly.if you really like a girl/boy,juz go and talk to her....why care what other people think about u and him/her when this is onli about you and him/her.Mostly this method will prevent you from a girl/guy to stop liking you and when this is done the "giving up" feeling won't come that easily.If the guy/girl juz suddenly don't like you then break up with you when u showed him/her a lot of love then that guy/girl don't deserve to have you becuz u showed him/her love and he does not know how to appreciate one's love when given!!!So juz fk it and forget him.
Random tip:be brave to share a feeling with your special someone and be brave to tell or advice them something.
Today's topic:"giving up"
Giving up is the most common feeling in the heart of any couple....boy or girl....still the same.If a boy likes a girl a lot in the end the boy will most probably have the giving up feeling,these things work vice-versa.See...if a boy named vincent really really liks a girl named yuna a lot...vincent will probably have the giving up feeling.If a girl/guy has no more feelings for you and u know it..then u will most probably want to give up.
Ways to prevent the "giving up" feeling to come and ways to "not make a girl stop liking you."
First of all....we should know what does the word"relationship' means....don't just throw that word around and don't know the meaning."Relationship" means having a relation with someone....it is either a friend relationship or a couple relationship.That means if u don't wan a girl/guy to stop liking you then u should connect with her....talk to her/him,have fun with him/her,share stuff with him/her,if not u will end the relationship quickly.Juz go talk to him/her in school...don't care what other people think,becuz my friends always tell me that they are shy and don't dare to talk to him/her,and becuz of this their relationship will end quickly.if you really like a girl/boy,juz go and talk to her....why care what other people think about u and him/her when this is onli about you and him/her.Mostly this method will prevent you from a girl/guy to stop liking you and when this is done the "giving up" feeling won't come that easily.If the guy/girl juz suddenly don't like you then break up with you when u showed him/her a lot of love then that guy/girl don't deserve to have you becuz u showed him/her love and he does not know how to appreciate one's love when given!!!So juz fk it and forget him.
Random tip:be brave to share a feeling with your special someone and be brave to tell or advice them something.
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